How prophet Muhammad (pbuh) treated his wives
The Prophet Muhammad (Peace and blessings be upon him) gave us a
striking example of how to treat women in his sunnah, but so many men
follow the sunnah and forget that a major component of it is the
prophets (pbuh) treatment of his wives, this is a reminder for all those
guys who are married or inshallah when they get married to remember the
sunnah of the prophet (pbuh) and the value and blessing of a wife.
Knowing their Feelings
The Prophet – Peace be upon him – was telling Aisha – May Allah be
pleased with her: “I know well when you are pleased or angry from me.
Aisha replied: How you know that? He said: When you are pleased with me
you swear by saying “By the God of Mohammad” but when you are angry you
swear by saying “By the God of Ibrahim”. She said: You are right, I just
desert you name. In another narration the same tradition ended by
saying: “No, by the God of Ibrahim”.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 2439
Understanding their Jealousy & Love
Umm Salama – May Allah be pleased with her – narrated: she brought
food in a dish of her own to the Prophet – Peace be upon him – and his
companions. Seeing that, Aisha came holding a tool and broke the dish
out of jealousy. Understanding the situation, the Prophet took the two
halves of the dish and said to his companions: Eat your food, it is just
the jealousy of your mother, then the Prophet took the dish of Aisha
and gave it to Um Salama and gave the dish of Um Salama to Aisha.
Narrated by: Um Salama – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Albani – The Source: Sahih Al-Nasa’i – Page or number: 3966
Understanding their Psychology & Nature
The Prophet – peace be upon him – said: “Treat women kindly, they
were created from a rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is the
highest part thereof; so, if you tried to rectify the rib it will be
broken and if you left the rib as it is, it will remain crooked, and
women are just like this; therefore treat them kindly”.
Narrated by: Abu Huraira – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Bukhari – The Source: Al-Jame’ Al-Sahih – Page or number: 3331
This tradition is not for dispraising women as understood by the
public, contrary, it is for teaching and educating men. Moreover, this
tradition expressed the accurate understanding of the nature of the
women and indicated the possibility of leaving the woman as it is in the
permissible things but to guide her if she exceeded the permissible
limits such as doing the sins and neglecting the duties.
Complaining to & Consulting them
The Prophet – peace be upon him – has consulted his wives in the most
delicate and important matters such as consulting his wife Um Salama –
May Allah be pleased with her – in Al-Hudaibia Treaty. The Prophet –
Peace be upon him – has written the treaty between him and the
polytheists of Quraish in Al-Hudaibia region, in the Hudaibia year and
told his companions: Go to make immolation and shave, but no one
responded. The Prophet – peace be upon him – repeated that three times
but still no one responded to him. Then the Prophet – Peace be upon him –
went to Um Salama and told her about the matter. Hearing that, Um Salam
said: O Prophet of Allah, just go and don’t speak to any one until you
make your immolation and shave. The Prophet – Peace be upon him – went
out and did not speak to any one until he did the same. Seeing that, the
companions stood and make their immolation and began shaving for each
other to the degree that some of them was about to kill the other out of
their grief.
Narrated by: Um Salama Hind Bint Abi Umayiah – Degree: successive –
the narrator: Ibn Jarir Al-Tabari – The Source: Tafsir Al-Tabari – Page
or number: 2/293
Demonstrating his Love & Loyalty to them
The Prophet – Peace be upon him – told Aisha in the long tradition of
Um Zara’ narrated by Al-Bukhari: I am in my love and loyalty to you
just like Abi Zara’ and Um Zara” Aisha replied: You are dearer to me
more than my father and mother, you are even more loyal and loving than
Abi Zara’ to Um Zara”.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Bukhari – The Source: Al-Jame’ Al-Sahih – Page or number: 5189
Choosing the Best Nicknames to them
The Prophet – Peace be upon him – was calling Aisha: O Aish (nickname
of Aisha), this is Jabril (Angle of revelation) telling you the
greetings. Aisha said: May peace and blessings be upon him, you (The
Prophet) see what I can’t see. The Prophet – Peace be upon him – was
calling Aisha “Al-Humairaa” (i.e. white-skinned woman).
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right attribution – the narrator: Ibn
Hijer Al-Asqalani – The Source: Fateh Al-Bari of Ibn Hijer – Page or
number: 2/515
Eating & Drinking with them
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – said: When I drink water from
the pot while in menstruation period and give the pot to the Prophet –
Peace be upon him – he drinks from the same place which touched my
mouth, moreover, during menstruation, I was eating from the piece of
meat and giving the same to the Prophet – Peace be upon him – and the
Prophet puts his mouth in the same place of mine.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 300
Not Complaining of their Circumstances
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – said: I was combing the hair of the Prophet – Peace be upon him – while in menstruation.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Bukhari – The Source: Al-Jame’ Al-Sahih – Page or number: 295
Leaning & Sleeping in their Laps
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – said: the Prophet – Peace be
upon him – was leaning on my lab while in menstruation and read Quran.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Bukhari – The Source: Al-Jame’ Al-Sahih – Page or number: 297
Going on Picnics & Accompanying Them
The Prophet – Peace be upon him – was casting lots between his wives
when he wants to go out. Once, the Prophet cast a lot between his wives
and the lot was the share of Aisha and Hafsa together. At night, the
Prophet walks with Aisha and speaks to her. Knowing that, Hafsa told
Aisha: Why don’t you ride on my camel and I ride yours and see what
happens? Aisha replied: okay. Then Aisha rode the camel of Hafsa while
Hafsa rode the camel of Aisha. The Prophet – Peace be upon him – then
went to the camel of Aisha while Hafsa riding it, greeted her and walked
together until they got down. Seeing that, Aisha felt jealousy and
tried to put her leg between the lemon grass and say: O my Lord, send a
scorpion or a sneak to sting me, this is your Prophet and I can’t say
anything to him.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 2445
Helping them in the Household Duties
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – was asked about the manners
of the Prophet in his home? She replied: He was helping in doing the
family duties and when he hears the call of prayer he goes out.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Bukhari – The Source: Al-Jame’ Al-Sahih – Page or number: 5363
Depending on himself to Relieve them
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – was asked about the manners
of the Prophet – Peace be upon him – in his home? She replied: He washes
his clothes, milks his ewe, and serves himself.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Albani– The Source: Sahih Al-Jame’ – Page or number: 4996
She said also: he sews his clothes, cleans his shoes and does what men generally do in their homes.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Albani – The Source: Sahih Al-Jame’ – Page or number: 4937
Tolerating for their Happiness
Aisha narrated that Abu Baker – May Allah be pleased with them –
entered to the home of the Prophet – Peace be upon him – while two young
girls were striking on the tambourine and signing and while the Prophet
– Peace be upon him – laying and covering himself with his clothes.
Seeing him, the Prophet uncovered his face and told him: O Aba Baker,
let them continue, it is the days of Eid (festival). The said days were
Mina Days and the Prophet – Peace be upon him – was in the Medina.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Albani – The Source: Al-Sahih An-Nasai – Page or number: 1596
Treat them Fairly while Angry
Once, Aisha was angry of the Prophet – Peace be upon him – So, he
told her: Do you accept Abu Obaida Bin Al-Jarrah as a judge between us?
She replied: No, this man will not issue a judgment against you in my
favor. He said: Do you accept Omar as a judge? She replied: I fear Omar.
He said: Do you accept Abu Baker (her father)? She replied: Yes I
accept him.
Calm Them Down In Panic
The Prophet – Peace be upon him – was putting his hand on the
shoulder of his wife when she is angry and saying: “O Allah, forgive her
sins, relieve her heart from rage and protect her from distress”.
Giving Presents and Showing Affection to their Friends
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – said: I have not ever been
jealous of any woman more than Khadijah in spite of not seeing her. The
Prophet – Peace be upon him – was slaughtering the sheep and says: Send
it to the friends of Khadijah”. One day I made him angry; I told him:
Why Khadijah! The Prophet – Peace be upon him – said: “I was endowed
with her love”. Another narration for this tradition ended in the story
of the sheep without the remainder.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 2435
74712- When he slaughters the sheep says: Send it to the friends of Khadijah.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Albani – The Source: Sahih Al-Jame’ – Page or number: 4722
Praising & Thanking them
The Prophet – Peace be upon him – said: The rank of Aisha to the
other women is like the rank of the porridge to the other foods.
Narrated by: Anas Bin Malek – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 2446
Feeling Happy when they are Happy
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – narrated that she was playing
with the toy girls when she was with the Prophet – Peace be upon him.
She added: My friends were coming to visit me and they were feeling shy
of the Prophet – Peace be upon him – but he was letting them in to me.
In another narration in the tradition of Jarir: I was playing with toy
girls while in his home.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 2440.
Feeling Pleased when they are Glad
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – said: Once, the Prophet –
Peace be upon him – came from a battle and there was a cover for my toy
girls in my room. The wind uncovered the toy girls. Seeing that, the
prophet said: What is this? She replied: my daughters. He said: What is
the thing between them? She replied: it is a horse. He said: What is
this thing on the horse? She replied: they are two wings. He said: A
horse with two wings!! She replied: didn’t you hear that Sulaiman bin
Dawood – Peace be upon them – was having horses with wings? The Prophet
then laughed until his molars appeared.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Albani – The Source: Ghayat Al-Maram – Page or number: 129
Expressing his Love to them
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – said: I have not been ever
jealous of any woman more than Khadijah in spite of not seeing her. The
Prophet – Peace be upon him – was slaughtering the sheep and says: Send
it to the friends of Khadijah”. One day I made him angry; I told him:
Why Khadijah! The Prophet – Peace be upon him – said: “I was endowed
with her love”. Another narration for this tradition ended in the story
of the sheep without the remainder.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 2435
Considering her Best Manners
“The faithful husband should not hate his faithful wife, because if
he hates certain manner in her character, then he should not forget the
other good manners in her character”.
Narrated by: Abu Huraira – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 1469
Keeping Their Privacy
“The worst rank for a man at the day of judgment is the rank of the
man who sleeps with his wife and then discloses her privacy”.
Narrated by: Abu Saeed Al-Khudri – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 1437
Refraining from Beating or Abusing them
“The Prophet – Peace be upon him – has not ever beaten any woman, any
servant or anything in his hand other than fighting in the way of Allah
The Almighty. He does not take revenge from anyone harmed him except
when breaching the orders of Allah The Almighty, at which case, he takes
revenge”.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 2328
Consoling & Wiping their Tears
Safiyah – May Allah be pleased with her – was traveling with the
Prophet – Peace be upon him – and it was then her turn to travel with
him. She was slow in walking. The Prophet – Peace be upon him – received
her while crying and saying: You gave me a slow camel. Seeing that, The
Prophet – Peace be upon him – wiped her eyes with his hands and
consoled her. Narrated by An-Nasai.
Putting the Bite in her Mouth
The Prophet – Peace be upon him said: “If you expend anything seeking
the pleasure of Allah the Almighty, even if you put a bite in the mouth
of your wife, He will promote you to a higher degree in paradise”.
Narrated by: — – Degree: Right – the narrator: Ibn Taymiyyah – The Source: Majmou’ Al-Fatawa – Page or number: 10/31
Fulfilling their Needs
“O Prophet of Allah, what are the rights of my wife? He said: To feed
her when you eat, clothe her when you clothe, don’t beat her face,
don’t abuse her and don’t desert her except in home”.
Narrated by: Mu’awiah Bin Haida Al-Qushairi – Degree: Stated in the
introduction that it is “Right” pursuant to the standards of some
narrators – the narrator: Ibn Daqiq Al-Eid – The Source: Al-Elmam – Page
or number: 2/655
Trusting them
The Prophet – Peace be upon him – prohibited men from knocking the
door of their families at night trying to charge them with treason or
follow their mistakes. In another narration, he did not mention “Trying
to charge them with treason or follow their mistakes”.
Narrated by: Jaber Bin Abdullah – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 715
Remembering & Caring About Them
The Prophet – Peace be upon him – was visiting his eleven wives
within a short period of time, at night or in the day. I said to Anas:
Was he bearing that? Anas said: He has the power of thirty men.
Narrated by: Anas Bin Malek – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Bukhari – The Source: Al-Jame’ Al-Sahih – Page or number: 268
Respecting them during Menstruation
The Prophet – Peace be upon him – was making love with his wives above the loincloth while in menstruation.
Narrated by: Maimona Bint Al-Hareth – Degree: Right – the narrator:
Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 294
Accompanying them in Travel
The Prophet – Peace be upon him – was casting lots between him wives
when he wants to travel then he takes the one who wins the lot. He cast a
lot between us in one of his battles and it was me who won it;
therefore, I went with the Prophet – Peace be upon him – after the
revelation of Al-Hijab (veil) verse.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Bukhari – The Source: Al-Jame’ Al-Sahih – Page or number: 2879
Racing & Playing with them
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – narrated that she was
accompanying the Prophet – Peace be upon him – in travel while she was a
young girl. She said I was still slim. The Prophet – Peace be upon him –
told his companions to go forward. They went forward. Then he told me:
come, I want to have race with you. We started the race and I won. After
a period of time, I went in travel with him and he said to his
companions go forward. The companions went forward and then he told me:
come to have a race with you. At that time, I forgot the former race and
I was fat. I told him: how can we race while I am in this situation
(thin)? He replied: you will do it. Then we started the race and he won.
He laughed then and said: tit for tat.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: his attribution is right – the narrator:
Al-Albani – The Source: Adab Al-Zafaf – Page or number: 204
Choosing the Best Nicknames for them
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – said to the Prophet – Peace
be upon him: O Prophet of Allah, all of your wives have nicknames except
me. The Prophet – Peace be upon him – replied: take the name of your
son Abdullah (i.e. Abdullah bin Al Zubair), your nickname now is Um
Abdullah. The narrator said: She was called Um Abdullah until she died
though she has not ever given birth.
Narrated by: Orwa Bin Al-Zubair – Degree: Right attribution – the
narrator: Al-Albani – The Source: Al-Silsila Al-Sahiha – Page or number:
1/255
Sharing Happiness and Joy with them
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – narrated: By Allah The
Almighty, I saw the Prophet – Peace be upon him – standing at the door
of my room and the Habashi people were playing with their bayonets in
the mosque of the Prophet – Peace be upon him – while he was covering me
with his gown so that I can see them playing and was waiting for me
until I finish by my own will. So, try to consider the desires of the
young girls, they like playing.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 892
116691- Aisha narrated: I saw the Prophet – peace be upon him – at
the door of my room and the Habashi people were playing in the mosque
and the Prophet – Peace be upon him – was covering me with his gown so
that I can see them playing.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Bukhari – The Source: Al-Jame’ Al-Sahih – Page or number: 454
Spreading Happiness in his House
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – narrated: Once, Sawda visited
us and the Prophet – Peace be upon him – sat down between me and her,
one leg in her lap and the other in mine. I made then Khazira (food) and
told her: Eat! She refused. I said: If you don’t eat I will stain your
face with Khazira but she insisted not to eat; therefore, I put my hand
in Khazira and painted her face. Seeing that, the Prophet – peace be
upon him – laughed and gave his share in Khzaira to Sawda and told her
stain her face; so, Swada stained my face and the Prophet – Peace be
upon him – laughed. Then Omar – May Allah be pleased with him – passed
by and called for Abdullah. The Prophet – Peace be upon him – thought
that he will enter but Omer said to us: Go wash your faces. Aisha said:
Since then, I still fearing Omar due to the Prophet’s respect to him.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Good – the narrator: Al-Albani – The Source: Al-Al-Silsila Al-Sahiha – Page or number: 7/363
Loving & Respecting their Families
The Prophet – Peace be upon him – appointed Amer Bin Al-Aas as a
leader to Zat Al-Salasil Battle. Feeling the love of the Prophet, Amer
asked the Prophet: Whose is the dearest to you? He answered: (Aisha),
Amer said: I mean from men: he replied: (Her father), Amer said: Who
then? The Prophet replied: (Omar), then the Prophet mentioned several
men; so, Amer kept silence in order not to be the last of them.
Narrated by: Abu Othman Al-Nahdi – Degree: Right – the narrator:
Al-Bukhari – The Source: Al-Jame’ Al-Sahih – Page or number: 4358
Keeping their Dignity in Ordeals
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – narrated: When the Prophet –
Peace be upon him – wants to travel, he casts a lot between his wives
and the one who won the lot will accompany him. At Bani Al-Mustaleq
Battle, I won the lot and traveled with him. The women were eating light
food and avoid meat in order to move easily. I was sitting in my howdah
when we get down for rest and when we want to go, they carry me while
in the howdah and put it on the back of the camel and then tight it with
ropes to go forward again.
When the Prophet – Peace be upon him – finished the said travel, he
went back to the Medina. By approaching the Medina, he got down and took
rest for a short period at night. Thereafter, the people were told to
resume walking and they got ready to continue while I was out to relieve
nature and I was having a necklace in my neck. When I finished, the
necklace fell down from my neck and I did not remember it until I
reached to the place of my baggage. At that time, people began leaving
while I returned back again to my place looking for the necklace until I
found it. Then, the people who took my camel for rest returned back and
put the howdah on the camel thinking that I am there as usual and
resumed walk. I returned back to the camp and no people were there. All
of them went forward. Seeing that, I covered myself with my gown and lay
down in my place so that when they miss me they can return and find me
there. While in that situation (laying down), Safwan Bin Al-Mu’atel
Al-Salami passed by me as he was late for relieving nature. He saw my
black clothes and approached me – He knew me before the revelation of
the Hijab (veil) verse – and said: “To Allah We belong, and to Him is
our return. The wife of the Prophet is here? I was then covering myself
with my gown. He said: Why you are late? I said nothing. Then he got the
camel close to me and said: Ride. He went back a little. Then I rode
the camel and he guided the camel toward the caravan but we did not
reach them and they did not miss us until the morning when they got down
for rest. Then, they saw the man guiding the camel I rode. At that
moment, a group of people fabricated a story and began spreading rumors
that we committed adultery and the whole camp became confused while I
know nothing about the whole matter.
Then we reached Medina and I was very sick and no one is telling me
what is going around. Then the matter reached to my father and the
Prophet – Peace be upon him – and no one mentioned anything to me. I was
then not pleased with the treatment of the Prophet toward me while I
was sick because when he enters my room while my mother is nursing me he
just says: How are you? He did not say anything else. Seeing that, I
felt angry of his coolness and told him: May I go to my mother? He
replied: No problem. Then I went to my mother and knew nothing about the
whole matter. About twenty days later I recovered. At our era, we were
not having toilets like the non-Arabs. We hate it. We were just going to
the free spaces in the Medina and the women were going out every night
to relieve nature. At certain night, I went out with Um Mustah to
relieve nature.
At the way, she stumbled with her clothes and said: Woe to my son
Mustah. I said to her: It is not good to speak like this about a man
like your son, he is one of the immigrants and he has witnessed Bader
Battle! Um Mustah said: Don’t you know the recent news? I said: What
happened? She told me about the rumors made by the people that I
committed adultery. I asked her: Is that what happened? She said: yes.
Hearing that, I was not able even to relieve nature and went back to
home. I continued crying till I felt my liver will be broken out. I told
my mother: All people speaking ill about me, why you did not mention
this to me? My mother said: My dear daughter, don’t worry; this usually
happens to any beautiful woman loved by her husband who has other wives
because the other wives and people will speak a lot about her out of
their jealousy. The Prophet – Peace be upon him – then delivered a
sermon to the people – I did not k
new that then – and said: “O people, why some group of you are
speaking ill about my family and telling false about them? I swear by
Allah The Almighty that my wife is good and chaste. Moreover, they also
spoke ill about a man who is straightforward. That man did not enter my
house except in my company”. Hearing that, Abdullah Bin Ubai and some
men of Al-Khazraj tribe got angry and the matter became complicated
after what was told by Mustah and Hamna Bint Jahsh, the sister of Zainab
Bint Jahsh, the wife of the Prophet – Peace be upon him – because she
was the only wife who compete with my rank for the Prophet. Zainab spoke
only good about me but her sister Hamna spread ill rumors about me.
When the Prophet – Peace be upon him – delivered the above mentioned
sermon, Usaid Bin Khudair said: O Prophet of Allah, if they (The people
who spoke ill about your family) are from Al-Aws tribe we will kill them
and if they are from our brothers in Al-Khazraj tribe, just order us
and we will cut their necks. Hearing that, Saad Bin Obada (Head in
Al-Khazraj tribe and was considered of the righteous men) said out of
ardor: I swear by Allah that you are lying, we will not allow you to cut
their nicks, you just said like that because you know well that they
(Who spoke ill about the Prophet’s family) are from Al-Khazraj tribe,
and if they were from your tribe you will not speak like this about
them. Usaid replied: I swear by Allah that you are the liar, you are
just a hypocrite man defending the hypocrite people. The Prophet – Peace
be upon him – got down from his stand and called Ali Bin Abi Taleb and
Osama Bin Zaid – May Allah be pleased with them – in order to consult
them.
Osma spoke good and said: O Prophet of Allah, it is your family and
we know nothing but good about them and these rumors are lies and false.
Ali said: O Prophet of Allah, women are many, you can marry again, and
you can ask her maid, she will not lie. The Prophet – Peace be upon him –
called Brira (the maid) and asked her about the matter. Ali has beaten
her severely while saying: speak the truth to the Prophet! The maid was
saying: I swear by Allah that I know nothing but good about Aisha except
that when I knead the dough I tell her to keep it but she sleeps and
forgets it, so the sheep comes and eat it! Then Aisha said: the Prophet –
Peace be upon him – entered to my room while my parents were with me.
There was also a woman from Al-Ansar (People who supported the Prophet)
crying with me. The Prophet – Peace be upon him – sat down, praised
Allah then said: O Aisha, you knew what the people are saying, be pious,
and if you committed any thing of what is said by the people just
repent to Allah. Allah will accept the repentance. Hearing that, I did
not find any tears in my eyes (out of my astonishment of the speech of
the Prophet) and expected that my parents will answer on my behalf but
they did not do so. I was thinking that the Prophet – Peace be upon him –
will see a dream proving my innocence but did not expect that my rank
is high to the degree that Allah The Almighty will reveal a verse
proving my innocence. I told my parents: Can’t you answer the Prophet of
Allah? They replied: We do not know what to say. The matter was very
difficult for Abu Baker family.
Aisha said: At that ordeal, the family of my father Abu Baker
suffered more than anyone can bear. Then Aisha said: When my parents did
not reply, I started crying and said: I swear by Allah I will not
repent from what you say at all because if I admit what the people is
saying – Though I am innocent – I will be saying what is not happened
actually and if I denied, you will not believe. Then I tried to remember
the name of the Prophet Yaqoub (Jacob) but in vain, then I said: I will
say just like the father of Yousuf: {For me patience is most fitting:
Against that which ye assert, it is Allah (alone) Whose help can be
sought}. Then the revelation came to the Prophet – Peace be upon him and
I put a billow under his head. I did not fear anything because I am
sure that I am innocent but my parents feared that Allah will reveal
something proving the sayings of people. Then the Prophet – Peace be
upon him – sat down sweating heavily. He started wiping his sweat and
said: Be happy Aisha, Allah The Almighty has revealed your innocence. I
said: All praise be to Allah The Almighty. Then the Prophet – Peace be
upon him – went out and recited the following verses: {Those who brought
forward the lie are a body among yourselves: think it not to be an evil
to you; On the contrary it is good for you: to every man among them
(will come the punishment) of the sin that he earned, and to him who
took on himself the lead among them, will be a penalty grievous}.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: The story is right and it is mentioned
in Al-Bukhari & Muslim – the narrator: Al-Albani – The Source: Fiqh
Al-Sira – Page or number: 288
Giving Time to Adorn themselves
We went for a battle with the Prophet – Peace be upon him – and I was
riding on my camel but someone followed me from behind and began urging
my camel with a stick; so, my camel went forward quickly more than the
best camels. The Prophet – Peace be upon him – said: (Why you are in
hurry?). I said: I got married recently. He said: (You married virgin or
not?). I replied: not virgin. He said: (Isn’t it better to marry a
young girl so that you can make fun with each other?). Then, when I went
to consummate the marriage the Prophet – peace be upon him – said:
(Wait until night – i.e. After Al-Isha (evening) – so that the bride can
comb her hair and get ready).
Narrated by: Jaber Bin Abdullah – Degree: Right – the narrator:
Al-Bukhari – The Source: Al-Jame’ Al-Sahih – Page or number: 5079
Considering their Psychology while in Illness
The Prophet – Peace be upon him – was, if one of his family members
sick, reading Al-Falq verse and An-Nas verse on the sick member of his
family and wiping him with his hands. When he got the sick which caused
his death, I started reading the said two verses and wiped him with his
own hands because they are more blessed than mine.
Narrated by: Aisha – Degree: Right – the narrator: Muslim – The Source: Al-Musnad Al-Sahih – Page or number: 2192
Bringing Good News and Joy to them
Jabril (Angle of Revelation) – Peace be upon him – came to the
Prophet – Peace be upon him – and said: O Prophet of Allah, this is
Khadija coming holding a pot of food or drink, when she reaches you,
tell her the greetings of Allah The Almighty and me and tell her that
Allah has prepared for her a house in paradise made out of pearls
wherein she will enjoy calmness and comfort.
Narrated by: Abu Huraira – Degree: Right – the narrator: Al-Bukhari – The Source: Al-Jame’ Al-Sahih – Page or number: 3820
Aisha – May Allah be pleased with her – narrated that the Prophet –
Peace be upon him – told her: “Jabril is telling you his greetings”
Aisha replied: tell him my greetings.
Jabril – Peace be upon him – came to the Prophet – Peace be upon him –
and said: O Prophet of Allah, this is Khadija coming holding a pot of
food or drink, when she reaches you, tell her the greetings of Allah The
Almighty and me and tell her that Allah has prepared for her a house in
paradise made out of pearls wherein she will enjoy calmness and
comfort. The Prophet – Peace be upon him – told these good news to
Khadija and was very happy for her.
Source (http://islamgreatreligion.wordpress.com/2012/06/15/the-prophets-emotions-toward-his-wives-brothers-special/)